I had a long talk with a friend about underbite. She said her doctor recommended her four-year-old start wearing a clear functional appliance now β€” a few hours a day. She said she didn't quite take it in at the time: the kid is only four, is it really necessary this early, and won't it sort itself out when the baby teeth fall out?

Start with underbite β€” where the lower teeth sit outside the upper teeth. This one can't wait, and it won't fix itself. With a skeletal crossbite, if nothing is done, as the jaw keeps developing the lower jaw grows more and more prominent, and the problem only gets worse. There's no such thing as it naturally improving after the adult teeth come in.

Doctors generally recommend starting treatment during the baby-tooth years, ages four to six, using a functional appliance β€” the removable kind you wear a few hours a day, not fixed wire braces. Don't confuse the two.

Why so early? The key is that at this age the bone is still developing and highly moldable. What the appliance does here is guide the jaw to grow in the right direction β€” light force, but obvious results. If you wait until twelve or thirteen, when all the permanent teeth are in and the bone is basically set, then changing it isn't guiding β€” it's forcibly reshaping a fully formed bone. The difficulty isn't even in the same league, and some severe cases need surgery once adult.

Deep bite β€” where the upper teeth cover the lower teeth too much β€” depends on severity. Mild cases may improve on their own as the jaw develops after the adult teeth come in, so observation is fine. Moderate to severe cases also warrant early intervention β€” do the right thing while the bone-development window is open.

If an orthodontist at a proper hospital recommends intervention after assessing you, most of the time they're not upselling a treatment β€” there really is a timing consideration.

Go get an X-ray and let the doctor look. Find out whether it's a skeletal problem or a dental one β€” skeletal has a tighter timeline; dental is more flexible. And go to the orthodontics department of a proper hospital or an oral and maxillofacial surgery department β€” more reliable than a chain dental clinic.

One last thing: an appliance and braces aren't the same thing. The functional appliance a four-year-old wears is completely different from the image of a mouth full of wires. Plenty of parents recoil at the phrase "wear an appliance" β€” but first figure out which kind it is, then decide.